Hi, I’m Alexandra
I’m a Matchmaker and Dating Coach, and I’m here to help!
I specialize in mindful dating and pursuing a mindset of growth and change. I have 10 years of experience in the industry.
I always felt called to help and educate people in all aspects of relationships so I knew from the start that matchmaking was for me.
I’ve worked with a wide variety of clients to help them achieve their dating goals and meet the love of their lives. Nothing makes me more proud than watching a person I coached achieve all the goals we set together.
It took me a long time to be happy with who I am.
I was not a social girl growing up. I didn’t go out for sports, didn’t have many hobbies, and even fewer friends.
The little feedback I got from adults was that I was too pushy, too loud, and demanding. Not letting the other kids make decisions. I internalized this deeply,
I became anxious and quiet. Withdrawn from the other children, distantly polite to adults. Internally I was constantly aware of myself, my body, and my emotions, and I found myself wanting.
This constant internal critique followed me into adulthood. It impacted my social life, my love life, and my career. I never felt good enough.
After a lot of self-reflection (and more than a few sessions with my therapist), I finally started to leave my old insecurities behind and adopt a mindset of growth.
I had to embrace my fear, my insecurity, my anxiety, and my pain. I had to allow myself to feel all those feelings, accept them, and move forward regardless.
True growth doesn’t come from safety and complacency but from struggle and risk. I had to learn the hard way to embrace the healthy pain of forward progression, so I could finally get where I needed to be.
It was hard. There were tears and setbacks, but I learned a lot about myself and my journey. I would love to share some of that hard-earned knowledge with you and hopefully set you on your path to achieving your goals in love and life.